December 26, 2021
























Good morning.....I hope you all had a wonderful Christmas....with family and loved ones....it's hard to believe how many anxiety and worry goes into 1 day of the year....the hustle and bustle of finding the perfect gift, the gift a child has dreamed of wanting for the entire year....and "Santa" finding a way to bring joy and delight into the eyes of a child!


For some the day is filled with sadness, loss of hope, wondering how they are going to survive....and find peace, joy, and love. As families make the decision to say goodbye to a loved one....or the passing occurs....and the day is filled with sorrow....it is hard relearning how to find joy in the simple things of life....and knowing you are loved....yet, at the same time missing love....


The angels from above reminded me.....I am loved....and have small angels bestowing kindness and love upon me during the holiday season.....and for this I am forever grateful....this picture....was from Christmas morning.....Yes....can you believe it, I got up....after many hours of crying myself to sleep.....and then falling asleep....I digress....but you can see....I am dressed-with a new shirt...from one of many angels, make-up on....and hair messy day LOL..... Yet, I faced the dragon and/or demon if you prefer....and made coffee, juice....and packed up a bag....and made my way to the beach....and talked with Paco.....and felt his spirit...saying to me GO ON MOM.....be strong....I love you....IT'S ok.....I was pleasantly surprised how many were at the beach....walking enjoying the sunshine and just sitting and watching the waves....sing to each of them.....the song in their heart.


Now, we are on the way to a new year....filled with hope, new love, new life changes...new personal goals.....as everyone tries to be a better, or different. version of him/herself...when in fact...we need to stay true to OURSELVES....life is about LOVING YOURSELF.....and not allowing others to manipulate us.....to fit into their mold but allowing us to find a mold that fits us BOTH! If you are in a relationship.....Be TRUE TO YOU....and everything else will fall into place.


The weather today is beautiful....the breeze is blowing nicely....I have opened the windows to allow the fresh in....and stale out.....yes...we become complacent and stale....and this holds up back from our true self. My question to you is....what defines you....today vs. yesteryear...and what do you hold true for the new year......everyone has a dream....and everyone has a goal..and everyone...has a wish......they are striving for....REMEMBER.....I have said this many times....YOU ARE THE DRIVER>>> you steer the bus.....you are in control....of your own happiness....and from this....you will find joy! I believe in you...!!! Now go fight the demon you are holding onto and slay the dragon....and set yourself free....from the chains binding you....remember change is hard...but man feels so "FREAKING" good, once accomplished and the dragon is slayed......For those needing a friend...I am here to help you.....find a way.......with open arms....a listening ear.....a shoulder to cry on.....a true friend is always on the ready......


I am going to work on me as well...so....that hopefully next Christmas....the demons are not as strong....but the memories are clear and pure.....and allow me to love him from afar....and still keep him in my heart.....and find peace with the choice GOD needed him to help bring others peace and joy! For this I pray this coming year!


Now, we will count down to the NEW YEAR 2022! OH MOLY......onward and upward.....


till next time-


cher-


PS.I love you....Te quiero .....Happy New.....Feliz año nuevo! Goodbye, adios! Ir adelante y prosperar! Go forth and prosper! Many things to come for each of you.....Muchas cosas por venir para cada uno de ustedes.

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