Christmas Countdown December 23, 2021

















Good morning! I took this picture this morning....when I woke up which was ten minutes ago!! To show the real me....this is what widowhood looks like for me....not sure how it looks like for others.....Sitting here drinking my vanilla coffee....and sitting in tee shirt and.....I have some instagram saying snapshots.....I am putting together for my post tomorrow.


My question is to you today....how many times do you put yourself last cause you feel this person needs outweighs yours.....or this is more important than my mental health....and how many times do you stop living.....put your life on hold.....the only thing WE should be STOPPING for is a "RED LIGHT" I know you read that right.......WHAT.....well the law says running the red is a fine.....SO, technically we need to stop right....or a "STOP SIGN".....otherwise if you stop....moving....stop doing for you...you become stagnant....DO YOU REALLY WANT TO STINK? I know I do not want to 'Stank".....LOL!!! Yet, however; I am stagnant.....stuck on a spinning wheel of missing out on life..... the wheel is spinning...but I feel like I am sitting still....if that makes any sense.


My second question to you today is are you a planner......meaning do you plan out the day in your head the night before, or when you wake up....or after you have your morning coffee.....do you make a plan of this is first, second, third....and if your plans don't go as expected....do you have meltdown....or go with the flow.....but all this is dependent on your happiness for the day......WELL....."IT's DEEP"....I am a planner for the most part...I like to have a schedule for the day and I am time freak.....I KNOW RIGHT.....how long to finish this or finish that. I really do time myself on certain projects......LOL......just who I am. Not many know that about me....just a little fun fact......to make you laugh.....my goal is to make one person happy.....or find joy within their life.....and that makes me happy. When your plans awry....don't allow that to be your downfall....of....oh....I cannot finish....or oh.....what do I do know....you go with the flow.....make a new plan....and then get back on the train....remember you are the DRIVER!!! Not anyone else.


It's hard to believe that Christmas is here in a few days.....December 25....and the D-DAY of. my life.....and how my world was shattered, torn....changed....and becoming single again...was not in my life plan....but....I had no control over this....so...here I am.....writing...wondering..what does my life have in store for me now.....New Job....New Love LOL....I do not believe that is going to manifest it self.....I did get a new car....a new apartment...and I am making new friends.....with my teaching......and I have met some wonderful people....and students.....bring me joy...when the light bulb goes off I GOT MISS CHERYL! Oh the wonder of life....


My wish for you today....is take the bull by the horn....go be smashingly great....and be the best you......remember you are the BEST VERSION OF YOU!!! Life is about taking chances....seizing the day....and moving past the NEIGH sayers....of yesterday, yesteryear.....and all that JAZZ! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL....YOU ARE DRIVEN....YOU ARE KIND....YOU ARE SPECIAL......


I love you all...for reading my stories....and I hope I make you smile.....


till next time!


cher-


PS. Merry Christmas, Feliz Navidad......Love you! Bye! Adios!

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