Christmas Countdown Dec 11, 2021




















Good morning! Happy Saturday....December 11, 2021. This picture is a whimsical photo... looks like the wind is blowing my hair.....just turned out to be a great pose....in the house. My day is starting slow today.....sometimes you just have to have a lazy morning...and today...I felt the need to be lazy....and lying in the bed....reading positive quotes....and finding self joy and motivation. What are some of the things you do when you find yourself in a lazy daisy mood? Do you read, do you surf the net, do you just think and ponder over life....and the crazy way it has all turned out?


There really. is no right or wrong answer to these questions....it's all in how you feel during the moment. Each person has a coping mechanism....that is right for them....and will use this when they are feeling strangled with life changes.....the days are getting shorter....but the hours seem longer and longer.....and I keep pushing ahead....cause that is what keeps us moving, grounded....and cobweb free, well----it's deep....but some cobwebs are removed....while others still linger....a little bit longer.


Did you ever watch Forrest Gump....(sp)....movie...the best saying is "Life is like a box of chocolate you never know what you are going to get"......well for many us that saying is so true...and words to live by.


WE don't know what is going to happen....what changes are coming down the pike...road....depending on where you are from LOL! How many feel like they are on a bumpy road, rocky road, dirt road....never ending road....yet....you are still heading somewhere......HOW many are afraid to remove themselves....from the path they are on...cause it is safe...I KNOW RIGHT! Safety......yes, yes, yes, comfort.....let's not deviate from comfort......cause we feel safe! OH HELL NO.....let's get out of the comfort zone and move onto a different path....and veer left or veer right.....you have the choice to make this decision....no one but YOU......don't allow others to make your life decisions for you.


Don't allow the loss of spouse be the end of finding true love again...or being afraid to live in singlehood....if that is your choice.....YES> YOU> have the choice....to make the change...be the change.....and move on past the negativity of the voices in your head! Or the negativity from those around you......Remember if you think you can or your think you can't ----YOUR ARE RIGHT!!!! GREAT WORDS TO LIVE BY!


So....get your ASS up and moving.....and find the spirit....find the joy....find the happiness...BE....the spirit....BE the joy....BE the happiness....cause you are the one who is DRIVING the bus.....go forth and shine....like the STAR you are....remember....I LOVE YOU...for YOU.....and that is all that matters to me.......


till next time!

cher-

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